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What To Consider When Looking After A Foster Child

October 29, 2021 By Nickida

Being a foster parent is an incredibly rewarding thing to do, but of course it does come with many challenges and it isn’t something that anyone should enter into lightly. No matter how much good it will do for the child involved, it’s just as important to take care of your own mental and physical wellbeing as the adult; you won’t be able to help anyone if you’re not one hundred percent happy with the situation. Therefore, it’s crucial that you consider everything you need to when it comes to looking after a foster child. Read on to find out what some of these things actually are. 

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What Support Do You Have? 

One of the very first things to consider when deciding on whether or not to foster a child through thefca.co.uk or any other agency is what kind of support you have. Although it isn’t always the case, often a fostered child will have been through some kind of trauma, and they might have behavioral issues as a result – make sure you are able to cope with this so you can ensure the very best place for the child is with you. 

As we’ve mentioned above, unless you are taking care of yourself, you won’t be able to take care of a child, and support can help in this regard. Just like any parent, trying to do everything yourself will be pretty much impossible, so you’ll need people around you who understand what you are doing and who can be there for you, your family, and the foster child. 

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Talk To Your Family 

The rules on who can foster a child have changed over the years. Once, you needed to be married, for example. Today, this is no longer the case. You can be single, you can be in a same-sex relationship, you can have children of your own or you might have none at all; any and all backgrounds are considered. 

If, however, you do have your own children and/or a partner, it’s vital that you talk to them if you are considering applying to become a foster parent. Not only will these people be an ideal support network as mentioned above, but you will be changing their lives too, and they all need to be happy with the decision. Simply going ahead without discussing the options with your family wouldn’t be fair on anyone, including the child who would come into your care. 

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How Will You Set Boundaries? 

Setting boundaries is an important part of parenting, whether you have your own children, you adopt, you become a foster parent, or it’s a combination of all these things. Although this is something that can be dealt with once the child arrives, it’s actually much better to have rules in place before this time. That way, they can immediately settle in and won’t be confused by constantly changing rules and boundaries. 

It may be that the child has never had any boundaries before, or that their homelife was different and they have to learn new rules, such as knocking before entering someone’s bedroom, or waiting until everyone has finished dinner before leaving the table. Make sure you are firm but kind when teaching them, whatever their new boundaries are, and it will help everyone.

Nickida

Nickida is a first-generation Trinidadian American wife and mother of four. She enjoys sharing recipes from her childhood growing up in Trinidad with her readers. Nickida has a son with Autism and shares posts around traveling with a child with special needs to help other families like her own. She loves television, movies and is a true 80's baby.

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Nickida is a first-generation Trinidadian American wife and mother of four. She enjoys sharing recipes from her childhood growing up in Trinidad with her readers. Nickida has a son with Autism and shares posts around traveling with a child with special needs to help other families like her own. She loves television, movies and is a true 80's baby.

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